In every family, sooner or later questions arise such as “should the family budget be separate”, should the husband give away his salary and what to do if the wife’s salary turns out to be an order of magnitude higher than her husband’s. These and other similar problems can lead to irreparable results if the problem is not addressed in time. And this is really a problem that is worth thinking about in time. After all, the modern reality is that women often earn more than men. As a result, some of the men feel inferior, which is not good for a future together. And how to solve this problem?
The situation is not pleasant, but it is quite possible to solve it. Remember that you fell in love with your spouse not for his money, but for the kind of person he really is, with all the pros and cons. And you probably weren’t always a highly paid specialist. It is so? There is no need to make a difference between the situations before and after. Many women don’t even specifically tell their husbands about their salary, because they have a chance not to beg their husband for a penny for expensive cosmetics, fashionable winter boots or a dress from the new collection. Now you can treat yourself to such things, and this, of course, is a definite plus. You can agree in advance that each of you contributes exactly half of your salary to the common budget, and everyone can spend the rest at their own discretion. In this case, you still remain on equal terms, and your other half will not develop any complexes.
Also, you should not violate your family traditions, which arose, perhaps, at the very beginning, but this is their value - despite the years and all the changes in your life, you still continue to be a single and indivisible whole. In addition, try to leave all your business at work - and if you urgently need to make or answer a call, or you realize that you are late, then apologize and warn about the delay.
Be proud of your husband, even if your friends or relatives completely disagree with it. After all, the main advantage of a man is not his salary - but his character, willpower and determination. You, as a family, must support each other and protect each other. And one more nuance, it is likely that you will want to give gifts not only to yourself, but to your husband. There is no need to rush into this; first, you can pamper yourself to your heart’s content. And only when you realize that your spouse has gotten used to the idea, and this is no longer able to unsettle him, is it worth thinking about it (but don’t go too far).
How to find out your ex-husband's salary
- I don’t know where my ex-husband works, how to find out the size of his salary.
- How can I find out what salary my ex-husband, who pays child support for my children, received?
- How to find out the salary of your ex-husband in order to apply for elements.
If you find it difficult to formulate a question, call, a lawyer will help you: Free from mobile and landline Free multi-channel phone If you find it difficult to formulate a question, call a free multi-channel phone, a lawyer will help you 1. I don’t know where my ex-husband works, how to find out the size of his salary. 1.1. Good afternoon, how can I find out the size of his salary?
You can only if you have a common child and are entitled to child support. 1.2. Hello! First, apply for alimony. You can apply for alimony in a fixed amount because you don’t know what his income is.
2. How to find out the salary of your ex-husband in order to apply for elements.
2.1. Hello dear site visitor! They will not provide you with information about your ex-husband’s salary; such information is not a prerequisite for collecting alimony. 2.2. Hello. Alimony. You can find out through the court.
Only this is not required. If everything is done correctly, then, regardless of his salary, you can receive both 10 and 15 thousand a month. 2.3. No way. And why do you need this?
Alimony is assigned as a percentage of all his income (salaries, bonuses, lottery winnings, inheritance, etc.) and is divided among all children. 3. How do I find out what salary my ex-husband, who pays alimony for my children, received?
3.1. Hello Tatiana. The bailiff has the right to check the debtor's accounting and salary. Request such a check from the bailiff. 4. Divorce is coming. There is a child 1.8.
I am employed, but since they don’t offer kindergarten yet, I can’t go to work. I will file for alimony and my own maintenance! The ex-husband says that the official salary is ~7 thousand rubles.
Whether this is true or not, I don’t know! He rents an apartment that clearly costs more than 7 thousand rubles.
Question: how to get maximum alimony!? How to find out what his official salary is!? And if it is confirmed that the salary is 7 thousand rubles, then how to prove that there is still an unofficial one!?
4.1. Depends on the specific situation. You need to look for information, request tax, pension, request information about property.
Then it's off to court. 4.2. Before filing a claim with the court for divorce and alimony, contact the head of the enterprise where your husband works with a request to clarify his salary (in the conversation, refer to your financial situation, to the doubts you have about your husband’s official salary in comparison with the amount of payment for the rented apartment). Perhaps, after a frank conversation and explanation of all the circumstances of the case, the employer will make concessions and agree to increase the size of the husband’s official salary in order to collect alimony payments.
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In addition, if the employer refuses to act according to the law, you can point out to him a violation of labor and tax laws on his part.
How to prove unofficial income
Usually, suspicions of concealing income when paying alimony arise when enforcement proceedings begin and funds begin to arrive. The bailiff responsible for the timeliness of transfers may not identify any suspicious actions in relation to the displayed salary. Due to the excessive workload, it is difficult to devote individual time to each case, so the task of the payment recipient is to monitor the amounts received into the account and control the correctness of their calculation.
Signs of concealment of income may include:
- the payment amount is too low;
- frequent changes in the amount of money;
- irregularity of receipts.
Such cases are a direct guide to action: collect evidence and go to court with a new demand to change the calculation of the share of income to a fixed payment in accordance with Art. 83 RF IC.
- Limitation period for alimony: the right to demand payments
It will be necessary to prove in court the unacceptability of the usual settlement procedure within the framework of the lawsuit, which involves summoning the defendant to meetings, hearing witnesses and a comprehensive consideration of the documents presented by both parties. There is no simplified procedure for assigning a fixed sum of money in court.
Before filing a claim in court, you will have to try to collect the maximum number of facts, documents, objective information that would indicate a deliberate understatement or concealment of earnings. The burden of proof falls on the plaintiff, so the desire to receive fixed, stable payments is clearly not enough to consider the case.
How evidence is collected
The following information will be useful to the child's mother or other recipient of alimony payments if it is necessary to collect information about real income. Speaking as an unofficial person, it can be difficult to get any information about how much the father earns.
A woman is limited in how she can obtain information, but there are still several ways to cope with the task:
- The FSSP service, where enforcement proceedings have been opened, requests information and documents obtained during the investigation. If it is not possible to extract accurate information from them, you can find valuable information about the nature and source of income in the accounts of the defaulter.
- When there is an understanding that the person receiving alimony goes to work and performs certain types of work, it is worth contacting the management and requesting information about the correspondence of the information from the FSSP with the actual state of affairs. If you talk to management, you can convince them to officially accept the job in order to remove suspicions from the employer of concealing the labor income of the staff.
- If the management does not make contact, they contact the labor inspectorate with a complaint and a request to conduct an inspection of the legal entity in which the alimony payer works or may work. It is easier for officially authorized persons to understand the situation and check the organization’s documents in relation to a specific employee.
- Gray salaries and envelopes on payday will not surprise anyone. If you conduct a detailed investigation, comparing expenses with income, these actions will not be enough for the court. The most effective way would be to contact the Federal Tax Service with a request to check the legal entity for payment of taxes and identify reports indicating the concealment of part of salary payments. The conclusion of the Federal Tax Service will become strong evidence for the court.
- Expensive purchases, cars, apartments purchased by relatives may turn out to be purchased with the money of an alimony defaulter. If there is a suspiciously rapid increase in property in the ex-spouse’s family, there is reason to assume that the child’s father decided to transfer purchases to his relatives in order not to advertise his income. A more detailed dive into the income of the child's father's relatives may show that their own income is clearly not enough to afford a large purchase.
- If the ex-spouse lives in grand style and justifies this with the loan he received, it is worth asking how he pays the loan payments. The task will be to obtain confirmation of the availability of loan payments, but the banks themselves are unlikely to provide information to outsiders. You will have to ask the bailiff for help to submit an official request to the bank where the defaulter is supposedly receiving credit.
- Business owners are also in no hurry to share their profits with their own children. As soon as a court order for payment is received, it turns out that the company is suffering losses or is barely making ends meet. It is difficult to understand the complexities of accounting and tax reporting, but it is possible to substantiate suspicions of concealing income if, after receiving a writ of execution, the company sharply changed its indicators.
- If a person occupies a well-paid position or profession, the court is presented with statistics on the average salary in the region for specialists of a similar level. Information on the average salary is requested from the Chamber of Commerce and Industry.
There is no single solution to how to prepare as thoroughly as possible for trial and present a convincing case. Acting according to the circumstances, you need to choose those methods of how to find out your husband’s salary for alimony that are applicable in a particular case.
Entrepreneur's income
Often recipients of alimony doubt the authenticity of the income shown to the tax authorities from the entrepreneur. If an individual entrepreneur hides income, how to prove this fact to the court becomes the main problem for the plaintiff. When the payer runs his own business, it is recommended to assign fixed payments in favor of the child, since business income is often unstable and allows periods of excess profits and losses.
- Application to the bailiffs regarding arrears of alimony
If the assigned amount seems insufficient or unfair, the woman has the right to address her doubts to the bailiff and make a request for similar information from all official organizations, government agencies, and credit institutions.
This information should be enough to judge whether there is concealment of income from alimony.
Marriage contract
If your spouse has the means, it is likely that he will ask you to sign a prenuptial agreement.
(I am not a lawyer, so my information is purely personal and does not constitute legal advice. Only a lawyer can give you qualified advice.)
If your fiancé has money, chances are he will ask you to sign a prenuptial agreement.
Remember that when you sign a prenuptial agreement, you are required by law to have your own lawyer represent your interests, and you can choose who that is. Do not hesitate to ask what conditions local women usually set in such situations and what exactly the lawyer advises you to do; it is advisable to receive an answer in writing. If there is written evidence, the consultant will be forced to give the correct answer, otherwise you can sue her for bad advice.
If you do not speak a foreign language fluently, request that documents be translated into Russian by a certified translator. In practice, it makes sense to find a lawyer who speaks Russian.
If the groom wants to conclude a contract in Russia, perhaps it is because in his country he will not be able to demand such conditions, they will be considered “unfair” and the lawyer will not allow you to sign such a paper. The rights of parties to a marriage are better protected in English-speaking and European countries; in Russia and Ukraine, marriage contracts are not so regulated and it is still possible to legalize a one-sided act that helps one spouse and infringes on the rights of the other. It is preferable to sign an agreement in accordance with the laws of the country where you intend to live after the wedding.
In any case, it is stupid to agree to a future divorce where you leave “as you came”, without anything. Do not forget that your demand as a woman and a potential bride is falling exponentially every year and no one will return your wasted time. A reasonable request could be 10-30 thousand dollars for each year of marriage, depending on the wealth of the spouse. It is a good idea to provide for an increase in this amount in the event of the birth of children.
If the groom does not require a contract, your rights in Western countries are sufficiently protected by law. It is this security that forces individual rich people to initiate a separate agreement in order to give you less if the alliance does not work out. When signing a premarital agreement, a man is obliged to include in the document full information about his existing property.
Find out the organization's income
Suppose you have a “Taxpayer Identification Number” of a competitor, I described how to find it out in a note (“Searching for a company by INN”, I advise you to look) and you want to use this data to find out its financial income for previous years, since you plan to invest in it your money. Of course, you can entrust this task to a good consulting agency, but they will ask you for a decent amount of money and it will take some time. You must admit that it would be convenient to have a tool that allows you to provide all the necessary data on the TIN and company income, through your phone or regular browser.
Seldon basis is a multilingual, highly intelligent search system that allows you to display in real time all available information on the desired company or individual entrepreneur, namely:
- Legal entity address
- OGRN
- TIN
- checkpoint
- OKPO
- Authorized capital
- Net profit
- Balance
- Revenue
- Subsidiaries
- Government contracts
- Arbitration cases and much more
Seldon Basis found me two company cards, I choose the one I need.
In the window that opens, we find the item “State registration”, it is this that will help us find out the profitability of the company by TIN. In my case, I see the entire scale with the net profit of PJSC AEROFLOT, its authorized capital and balance sheet, you will agree that it is very convenient and fast, with this method you can break through any company. I would like to note that the service also has a paid version, which has a lot of bells and whistles, I advise you to register and try test access, it is absolutely free.
I think you will agree that finding out an organization’s income is very simple in the modern world and does not take much time. I would also like to add that the service has a mobile application for Android and IOS.
The Federal Tax Service has distributed information “On obtaining information about certificates in form 2-NDFL using the “Taxpayer Personal Account” service.”
Individuals - users of the “Taxpayer Personal Account for Individuals” service can obtain information about income received and withheld tax amounts provided by the employer to the tax authority.
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The specified information can be found in the section “Tax on personal income” - “Information on certificates in form 2-NDFL”. The search for information is carried out automatically upon entering the corresponding subsection without a prior request from the user.
Currently, information is available for the three previous years - from 2011 to 2013.
How to find out a person’s salary legally and what is needed for this
Reliable data on a citizen’s income is contained in personal income tax and SIZ-6 certificates. The first document is administered by the tax inspectorate and has two types - 2-NDFL and 3-NDFL.
The first is submitted by the citizen’s employer. It contains information about the salary, position and the amount of deductions paid from the amount received. The second is the citizen himself. It contains information about income received in addition to the official salary.
SIZ-6 is a document from the Pension Fund. It contains data on place of work and income for the entire period of work.
You can find out your salary by TIN directly from the Federal Tax Service or online by visiting the official service. You can obtain information from the Pension Fund of the Russian Federation in the citizen’s personal account on the official website or by using the State Services service.
Is it possible to check the true size of the salary of the alimony payer?
Hello.
Just keep in mind that frankness must be mutual. If you are not ready to tell your husband the amount of your income, think: why are you so secretive?
He works on a rotational basis in Moscow at a security company. According to his mother and other relatives, his salary is about 60-70 thousand rubles per month, but he provided the bailiffs with a certificate from work, which states that his salary is 10 thousand per month, and alimony is calculated from this amount.
I suspect this is a salary, or the certificate is forged, because this is not a Moscow salary. Is it possible to somehow check the true size of his salary (for example, calculate it using tax deductions or to the Pension Fund)?
And can I demand that the bailiffs more carefully check his true earnings? If he cheats, can this be regarded as evasion of alimony payments?
Good afternoon If the ex-husband receives a salary “in envelopes”, then you will also not see taxes and contributions to the Pension Fund, since they are paid from the “white” part of the salary.
As for the audit, it is not the bailiff’s authority to check the accuracy and completeness of the company’s accounting records.
This is done by other bodies. But if the certificate is forged, this can be checked. Those. if the husband receives a “white” salary more than he shows, this is already serious and there is not a single offense here either on the part of the husband or on the part of the enterprise and officials where he works.
The bailiff may request relevant information from the tax office.
In principle, there is no way out in this situation; alimony will be calculated in your case only from 10 thousand rubles. There is an option to establish a fixed amount of alimony in court, but in this case it is necessary to provide evidence of a higher salary.
There is a peaceful option - a notarized agreement to pay a fixed amount of alimony. The size of the amount in the peaceful option is set arbitrarily, but not less than 1/4 of the (official) salary.
Let's return to the question of finding out real wages. If your husband currently has arrears in paying alimony, then submit an application to the investigation department of the bailiffs to conduct a check on the grounds of a crime under Art.
What if my husband doesn’t give me a salary?
This also happens - it’s not a disaster or a problem, but the situation is unpleasant. After all, it turns out that if your husband does not want to share his earnings with you, it means that he does not trust you. So what should we do then? If you think that this is the reason, you should pay attention to your behavior with your husband and find the root of the mistrust - secret calls, delays at work, etc. situations may well provoke such a reaction. Share your problems with your husband, discuss various situations in your life. Try to avoid work calls while you are at home, or talk in front of him, thus showing that you have absolutely nothing to hide. It is difficult to regain trust; its absence can destroy any, even the strongest family. But if you find yourself thinking that you also don’t trust your spouse, then you should think about the future of your family.
The first option is that you do not allow your husband to spend money on himself. This behavior is quite justified if he spends money on drinking and partying with friends and he is absolutely indifferent to the fact that the child needs to buy a jacket or boots, or you are saving money for good repairs and other vital things. If the problem is alcohol, then you should definitely consult a specialist. If your spouse spends money on friends and parties, then you should talk to him frankly - show him a list of your expenses for the month along with receipts, and explain to him that you need his participation in the family budget, ask him to give his entire salary. At the same time, clearly explain what you do not have enough money for and offer the following option: he can also keep the money with himself, but let him buy some of the products and things on his own. It is likely that the man will be satisfied with this option, and over time he will understand why it was so important for you to know the true size of his salary. If your words do not have an effect, then you should draw a conclusion about what comes first for your husband, and, based on this, draw a conclusion whether it is worth continuing your marriage with this person.
The second option is that a man hides his salary from you because he spends it on things that you consider unimportant and unnecessary. It is logical that in such a case he will secretly put aside money from each salary in order to save up for something that is “unnecessary”, in your opinion.
There can be various reasons for hiding your salary, so carefully analyze your behavior before drawing conclusions. Again, you should separate what annoys you more: the fact that because of this you do not have enough money to live or the fact that he spends money on these things. In the first case, you should again talk to your other half.
In the second case, it’s worth considering that not all of our purchases please the purchasing representatives. But what’s more, we ourselves cannot always explain why we bought this or that thing. Men and women have different priorities, for example, we want a new pair of shoes, and he dreams of a new sword in his collection. If you often satisfy your whims, then it’s worth considering that you have no right to forbid your man to buy what brings him joy. Perhaps he hides his salary to avoid unnecessary quarrels and scandals. Talk to him and explain the reasons for your indignation, and also promise not to react so sharply to his purchases in the future and tell him that now he can completely calmly buy what he likes (only if it does not come at the expense of your overall family budget). When he sees that you are calm about his spending, he will stop hiding his earnings from you.
Responsibility for concealing income when paying alimony
When a citizen becomes obligated to provide financial support for a child or other family member, the alimony payer becomes required to transfer monthly alimony in a fixed amount or as a percentage of income. However, situations often arise in life when an unscrupulous alimony payer seeks to hide the true amount of earnings in order to reduce the amount of alimony payments. In such a situation, the recipient of financial support is forced to be content with minor payments, the amount of which often does not exceed the subsistence level. By studying this publication, you will be able to get acquainted with information on how to find out the amount of income of your ex-spouse and prove that the husband has unofficial earnings. Unfortunately, paying salaries in an envelope or receiving unofficial earnings is considered quite common at the moment. This situation is often taken advantage of by unscrupulous alimony payers who seek to hide their real income and thereby reduce the amount of alimony. If such a situation arises, the recipient of alimony payments, represented by the ex-wife, can initiate his own investigation in order to find out the real amount of the husband’s income and collect alimony for the maintenance of the child.
